http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2009/11/04/ten-reminders-for-divorced-couples/ Difficult Relationships - honest answers to relationship dilemmas Sun, 22 Jan 2012 11:30:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2009/11/04/ten-reminders-for-divorced-couples/#comment-3088 Katharine Fri, 06 Nov 2009 21:43:56 +0000 http://rodesmith.com/?p=2597#comment-3088 Rod, Your words are wise and from the beginning, I made it my mission to remain cordial, even friendly. I take responsibility and felt my husband was brave 'to pull the plug'. Now, it takes two to have tangoed, but at least we can bump into each other on the dance floor. By becoming friends with his new wife, my mother says I'm triangulating. Thought about it and can say no. I did it for ease of communication for the boys and because she had been a friend before. Is that triangulation? (Or strangulation?) Rod,
Your words are wise and from the beginning, I made it my mission to remain cordial, even friendly. I take responsibility
and felt my husband was brave ‘to pull the plug’. Now, it takes two to have tangoed, but at least we can bump into each other on the dance floor.
By becoming friends with his new wife, my mother says I’m triangulating. Thought about it and can say no. I did it for ease of communication for the boys and because she had been a friend before. Is that triangulation? (Or strangulation?)

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