Comments on: My husband wants to go out with ‘the boys’…. http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/12/02/my-husband-wants-to-go-out-with-the-boys/ Difficult Relationships - honest answers to relationship dilemmas Sun, 22 Jan 2012 11:30:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Rod E. Smith, MSMFT http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/12/02/my-husband-wants-to-go-out-with-the-boys/#comment-2896 Rod E. Smith, MSMFT Thu, 11 Dec 2008 21:04:28 +0000 http://rodesmith.wordpress.com/?p=1095#comment-2896 You are correct. Mr. Drattit, I am certainly not always consistent. Thanks for pointing it out to me..... You are correct. Mr. Drattit, I am certainly not always consistent. Thanks for pointing it out to me…..

]]> By: Ackroyd Drattit http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/12/02/my-husband-wants-to-go-out-with-the-boys/#comment-2895 Ackroyd Drattit Thu, 11 Dec 2008 14:00:04 +0000 http://rodesmith.wordpress.com/?p=1095#comment-2895 It seems, Mr. Smith, you have two standards where the flirtatiousness of one of the people in a monogamous relationship is concerned. Here you take the part of the wife and call the husband immature. When I complained (and a myriad of other people about theirs in comments that followed my posting) about my spouse's behavior, your opinion was my wife was just having "fun" and enjoying herself. Well, so is this husband was just "having fun" and "enjoying himself," and aren't you going to imply this woman, his wife, is a wet blanket for raining on her husband's parade? Well, I've said my piece. I agree with you and with her: her husband is a little boy and should have gone home where he belonged. He's a selfish pig for going out without his wife, and she's obviously got it together: she's booted him out and left him. It seems, Mr. Smith, you have two standards where the flirtatiousness of one of the people in a monogamous relationship is concerned. Here you take the part of the wife and call the husband immature. When I complained (and a myriad of other people about theirs in comments that followed my posting) about my spouse’s behavior, your opinion was my wife was just having “fun” and enjoying herself. Well, so is this husband was just “having fun” and “enjoying himself,” and aren’t you going to imply this woman, his wife, is a wet blanket for raining on her husband’s parade?

Well, I’ve said my piece. I agree with you and with her: her husband is a little boy and should have gone home where he belonged. He’s a selfish pig for going out without his wife, and she’s obviously got it together: she’s booted him out and left him.

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