Comments on: Reader expresses opinion about helping a partner feel secure…. http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/08/23/reader-expresses-opion-about-helping-a-partner-feel-secure/ Difficult Relationships - honest answers to relationship dilemmas Sun, 22 Jan 2012 11:30:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Shaundra http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/08/23/reader-expresses-opion-about-helping-a-partner-feel-secure/#comment-2840 Shaundra Thu, 28 Aug 2008 20:24:36 +0000 http://rodesmith.wordpress.com/?p=824#comment-2840 Well I would say that the good thing about a post like this is that it offers another perspective on how to handle a very viable situation in a lot of relationships. If a person is already insecure. Not putting them down or causing them to feel as though you are untrustworthy is a good step. I have been hurt deeply from past relationships and once you have knowledge on the characteristics of a cheater it does cause insecurities. I appreciate what the writer says. Opening the door to honesty and not behaving as though you have something to hide creates a new circle of trust with the insecure person. It shows true love and a commitment to not wish to betray. Well I would say that the good thing about a post like this is that it offers another perspective on how to handle a very viable situation in a lot of relationships. If a person is already insecure. Not putting them down or causing them to feel as though you are untrustworthy is a good step. I have been hurt deeply from past relationships and once you have knowledge on the characteristics of a cheater it does cause insecurities. I appreciate what the writer says. Opening the door to honesty and not behaving as though you have something to hide creates a new circle of trust with the insecure person. It shows true love and a commitment to not wish to betray.

]]> By: Lighthouse http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/08/23/reader-expresses-opion-about-helping-a-partner-feel-secure/#comment-2839 Lighthouse Wed, 27 Aug 2008 16:32:10 +0000 http://rodesmith.wordpress.com/?p=824#comment-2839 The danger of a post like this is that without any framing the "Reader expresses opinion..." could be misinterpreted by others as "Reader expresses opinion (with Rod's tacit approval by virtue of posting)..." ... and I'm not sure that's where you want us to go ! The danger of a post like this is that without any framing the “Reader expresses opinion…” could be misinterpreted by others as “Reader expresses opinion (with Rod’s tacit approval by virtue of posting)…”

… and I’m not sure that’s where you want us to go !

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