http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/08/13/why-i-called-his-wife/ Difficult Relationships - honest answers to relationship dilemmas Sun, 22 Jan 2012 11:30:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/08/13/why-i-called-his-wife/#comment-2831 tobeme Thu, 14 Aug 2008 22:52:12 +0000 http://rodesmith.wordpress.com/?p=796#comment-2831 You knew he was married from the beginning, so you at some level knew what kind of man he was. I doubt that his wife was truly surprised by the call. Your realization of what you were involved in is not news to you, simply more aware because this relationship did not work out the way you wanted it to. Hopefully your call to the wife helped to save other women from this man's behavior. Learn and move on. You knew he was married from the beginning, so you at some level knew what kind of man he was. I doubt that his wife was truly surprised by the call. Your realization of what you were involved in is not news to you, simply more aware because this relationship did not work out the way you wanted it to. Hopefully your call to the wife helped to save other women from this man’s behavior. Learn and move on.

]]> http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/08/13/why-i-called-his-wife/#comment-2830 urs Thu, 14 Aug 2008 17:17:17 +0000 http://rodesmith.wordpress.com/?p=796#comment-2830 my x fiancee did the same he was in the raf-how we met-he 'found' me 13yrs after we split-married-he lied and took advantage of my vulnerable state-he became obsessive to the point i had no option but to inform his officers-he sold his house and went bk to wife then tried to rekindle the affair-when i pushed him away and never returned calls-he then just kept calling and damaging future dates-he was too 'controlling' this week i e-mailed him with threat of police action-i've had enough-he's devious, manipulative and cares for only himself-i don't know where he lives he just uses a mobile to track me at all times-i'm scared-if you would like to e-mail me maybe we can help each other? my x fiancee did the same he was in the raf-how we met-he ‘found’ me 13yrs after we split-married-he lied and took advantage of my vulnerable state-he became obsessive to the point i had no option but to inform his officers-he sold his house and went bk to wife then tried to rekindle the affair-when i pushed him away and never returned calls-he then just kept calling and damaging future dates-he was too ‘controlling’ this week i e-mailed him with threat of police action-i’ve had enough-he’s devious, manipulative and cares for only himself-i don’t know where he lives he just uses a mobile to track me at all times-i’m scared-if you would like to e-mail me maybe we can help each other?

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