http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/06/30/helping-yourself-recover-from-a-romantic-break-up%e2%80%a6/ Difficult Relationships - honest answers to relationship dilemmas Sun, 22 Jan 2012 11:30:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/06/30/helping-yourself-recover-from-a-romantic-break-up%e2%80%a6/#comment-2784 familyof3 Fri, 10 Oct 2008 17:26:22 +0000 http://rodesmith.wordpress.com/?p=727#comment-2784 I am the one who has been cheated on lied to and my husband has left me for his lover. We have only been separated 1/ 1/2 weeks and I have already cried and begged him to come home trying to tell him just how much I love him and how much I miss him, but it doesnt seem to matter to him of our 12 1/2 years of marriage. I have blamed and expressed to him all of his faults and his wrong doings and his abandonment of his family. Everything I read, I know that I should not do this and that I should just pretend that I am okay and happy and go on doing "normal" everyday things. Well how could I do this; I go to sleep thinking of him and I wake up thinking of him, I feel weak, and every time I hear his voice I just want him to tell me that he made a mistake and his coming home and he loves me. I have small family, mom, sister, and brother. My sister lives in Texas, my brother is busy with his family, and well my mom is just not a big support. I have never been real socialable, what can I do to surround myself with people and things to do. My 9 year old daughter is missing her daddy really bad!!!! and she needs things to do to keep her occupied. She idolizes her daddy and I find myself not even wanting him to talk to her and again I know that isnt right.... I am the one who has been cheated on lied to and my husband has left me for his lover. We have only been separated 1/ 1/2 weeks and I have already cried and begged him to come home trying to tell him just how much I love him and how much I miss him, but it doesnt seem to matter to him of our 12 1/2 years of marriage. I have blamed and expressed to him all of his faults and his wrong doings and his abandonment of his family. Everything I read, I know that I should not do this and that I should just pretend that I am okay and happy and go on doing “normal” everyday things. Well how could I do this; I go to sleep thinking of him and I wake up thinking of him, I feel weak, and every time I hear his voice I just want him to tell me that he made a mistake and his coming home and he loves me. I have small family, mom, sister, and brother. My sister lives in Texas, my brother is busy with his family, and well my mom is just not a big support. I have never been real socialable, what can I do to surround myself with people and things to do. My 9 year old daughter is missing her daddy really bad!!!! and she needs things to do to keep her occupied. She idolizes her daddy and I find myself not even wanting him to talk to her and again I know that isnt right….

]]> http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/06/30/helping-yourself-recover-from-a-romantic-break-up%e2%80%a6/#comment-2783 fekans Sat, 09 Aug 2008 09:31:42 +0000 http://rodesmith.wordpress.com/?p=727#comment-2783 my situation is where she is just finding an excuse to fight everyday, but i told her to get out of my life even if i know i will kill me for a while.... my situation is where she is just finding an excuse to fight everyday, but i told her to get out of my life even if i know i will kill me for a while….

]]> http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2008/06/30/helping-yourself-recover-from-a-romantic-break-up%e2%80%a6/#comment-2782 fekans Sat, 09 Aug 2008 09:31:11 +0000 http://rodesmith.wordpress.com/?p=727#comment-2782 i am that situation where she is just finding an excuse to fight everyday, but i told her to get out of my life even if i know i will kill me for a while.... i am that situation where she is just finding an excuse to fight everyday, but i told her to get out of my life even if i know i will kill me for a while….

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