Comments on: First year of fourth marriage has been “down”… http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2007/12/18/first-year-of-fourth-marriage-has-been-down/ Difficult Relationships - honest answers to relationship dilemmas Sun, 22 Jan 2012 11:30:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Kay Shell http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2007/12/18/first-year-of-fourth-marriage-has-been-down/#comment-2376 Kay Shell Sun, 06 Apr 2008 10:07:48 +0000 http://rodesmith.com/2007/12/18/first-year-of-fourth-marriage-has-been-down/#comment-2376 Listen. I am not here to (gripe) at you like the above. I know what you are going through. This is my third marriage and I can sense it going down the tubes as I speak. What do you have to do to please? I am just going to be alone when this one blows up. He is acting like I am a pig since I went back to work (he made me quit for 6 months because of jealousy), Whats wrong with being alone and taking care of your self and using men for sex? They brought it on themselves...I have spent 21 years trying to please my husband. It never works, nothing you do is right and all you end up with is guilt over something you could have done or might have done differently. It's hell on earth. I have no idea of how to make myself happy but I need to try. Sorry if this makes no sense. There I go apologizing again. But really I hope this helps. K (Comment edited, by Rod Smith, of poor language choices) Listen. I am not here to (gripe) at you like the above. I know what you are going through. This is my third marriage and I can sense it going down the tubes as I speak. What do you have to do to please? I am just going to be alone when this one blows up. He is acting like I am a pig since I went back to work (he made me quit for 6 months because of jealousy), Whats wrong with being alone and taking care of your self and using men for sex? They brought it on themselves…I have spent 21 years trying to please my husband. It never works, nothing you do is right and all you end up with is guilt over something you could have done or might have done differently. It’s hell on earth. I have no idea of how to make myself happy but I need to try. Sorry if this makes no sense. There I go apologizing again. But really I hope this helps. K

(Comment edited, by Rod Smith, of poor language choices)

]]> By: Frank http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2007/12/18/first-year-of-fourth-marriage-has-been-down/#comment-2375 Frank Wed, 19 Dec 2007 17:50:46 +0000 http://rodesmith.com/2007/12/18/first-year-of-fourth-marriage-has-been-down/#comment-2375 You are obviously attracting these relationships into your life for a reason. Relationships are here to teach us life’s greatest lessons. They push our buttons. They help us grow. Perhaps its time to look inward. Stop giving away your power! Own it. You have been attracting men into your life looking for love and yet it eludes you. Are you not worth more? Do you have such low self esteem that you cannot raise your standards and feel worthy of a healthy relationship? Look into your past, your parents, and perhaps close relative’s relationships. Are you exemplifying what they have in their life? Is that what you feel love is all about? Things to think about and as the previous comments mentioned, find a good therapist and open up to finding the true answers. All the best. You are obviously attracting these relationships into your life for a reason. Relationships are here to teach us life’s greatest lessons. They push our buttons. They help us grow. Perhaps its time to look inward.
Stop giving away your power! Own it.
You have been attracting men into your life looking for love and yet it eludes you. Are you not worth more? Do you have such low self esteem that you cannot raise your standards and feel worthy of a healthy relationship? Look into your past, your parents, and perhaps close relative’s relationships. Are you exemplifying what they have in their life? Is that what you feel love is all about?
Things to think about and as the previous comments mentioned, find a good therapist and open up to finding the true answers.
All the best.

]]> By: HottieCF http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2007/12/18/first-year-of-fourth-marriage-has-been-down/#comment-2374 HottieCF Wed, 19 Dec 2007 09:33:14 +0000 http://rodesmith.com/2007/12/18/first-year-of-fourth-marriage-has-been-down/#comment-2374 Everyone have the the freedom to express themselves and spice up their life... kill the pain of life: lonely, unhappy, depressed . . . Merry Christmas And A Happy New Year!!! Everyone have the the freedom to express themselves and spice up their life… kill the pain of life: lonely, unhappy, depressed . . .

Merry Christmas And A Happy New Year!!!

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