Comments on: Stay out of control… http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2007/12/05/stay-out-of-control/ Difficult Relationships - honest answers to relationship dilemmas Sun, 22 Jan 2012 11:30:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Argentum http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2007/12/05/stay-out-of-control/#comment-2322 Argentum Fri, 04 Jan 2008 12:19:44 +0000 http://rodesmith.com/2007/12/05/stay-out-of-control/#comment-2322 <strong>Affairs blamed as divorce rate hits all-time high</strong> Affairs have been blamed for the collapse of half the troubled marriages in the North, it was revealed today. With divorce rates at an all-time high, boredom and financial pressure were also among the key reasons for irreconcilable break-downs, a new s... Affairs blamed as divorce rate hits all-time high

Affairs have been blamed for the collapse of half the troubled marriages in the North, it was revealed today.
With divorce rates at an all-time high, boredom and financial pressure were also among the key reasons for irreconcilable break-downs, a new s…

]]> By: kyraandtylersmom http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2007/12/05/stay-out-of-control/#comment-2321 kyraandtylersmom Thu, 20 Dec 2007 21:43:46 +0000 http://rodesmith.com/2007/12/05/stay-out-of-control/#comment-2321 I think confrontation is a bad idea. Safety is a good one. Let's not let this escalate into something violent. Leave and don't look back. Save yourself. Who cares what he says. He's a manipulator. he'll say anything so you look bad. It will happen whether you stay or go. Empower yourself from the abuse and control and call a old friend or relative you know you can trust. Go. I think confrontation is a bad idea. Safety is a good one. Let’s not let this escalate into something violent. Leave and don’t look back. Save yourself. Who cares what he says. He’s a manipulator. he’ll say anything so you look bad. It will happen whether you stay or go. Empower yourself from the abuse and control and call a old friend or relative you know you can trust. Go.

]]> By: Frank http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2007/12/05/stay-out-of-control/#comment-2320 Frank Wed, 19 Dec 2007 18:12:22 +0000 http://rodesmith.com/2007/12/05/stay-out-of-control/#comment-2320 Confront him with the fact that maybe he wants you to leave. Maybe he is making your life so miserable that you won’t want to stay. That way, he can say that you left him. This is a big thing for men. It feels better when we say she left so men are the victims. He probably has plans already and just waiting for you to walk. So confront him with the fact that you are not going to leave no matter how miserable he wants to make you feel and start doing your own thing as the previous comments suggested. Be strong. Confront him with the fact that maybe he wants you to leave. Maybe he is making your life so miserable that you won’t want to stay. That way, he can say that you left him. This is a big thing for men. It feels better when we say she left so men are the victims. He probably has plans already and just waiting for you to walk. So confront him with the fact that you are not going to leave no matter how miserable he wants to make you feel and start doing your own thing as the previous comments suggested.
Be strong.

]]> By: Christina Rowe http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2007/12/05/stay-out-of-control/#comment-2319 Christina Rowe Mon, 17 Dec 2007 08:09:37 +0000 http://rodesmith.com/2007/12/05/stay-out-of-control/#comment-2319 You are obviously in a very unhealthy relationship. Unless your husband is willing to seek marriage counseling, I highly doubt that he will change his ways. Your instinct to run may be a good one. This man is controlling your life and emotionally abusing you. If you do decide to leave, be very careful and take precautions to protect yourself. A man who exhibits the kind of behavior you described can be dangerous. You are obviously in a very unhealthy relationship. Unless your husband is willing to seek marriage counseling, I highly doubt that he will change his ways. Your instinct to run may be a good one. This man is controlling your life and emotionally abusing you.
If you do decide to leave, be very careful and take precautions to protect yourself. A man who exhibits the kind of behavior you described can be dangerous.

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