Comments on: Differentiation of Self http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2006/07/29/differentiation/ Difficult Relationships - honest answers to relationship dilemmas Sun, 22 Jan 2012 11:30:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Addressing a Fear of Criticism :: Terry Hickey http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2006/07/29/differentiation/#comment-840 Addressing a Fear of Criticism :: Terry Hickey Thu, 10 Feb 2011 04:56:34 +0000 https://rodesmith.wordpress.com/2006/07/29/self-differentiation-emotional-health-schnarch-david-passionate-marriage/#comment-840 [...] way to think about fear of criticism is to create a sense of what psychologist David Schnarch calls self-differentiation, which requires building a sense of self that is more immune to others’ criticisms.  This issue [...] [...] way to think about fear of criticism is to create a sense of what psychologist David Schnarch calls self-differentiation, which requires building a sense of self that is more immune to others’ criticisms.  This issue [...]

]]> By: The Belief Change Alchemist » Blog Archive » Addressing a Fear of Criticism http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2006/07/29/differentiation/#comment-839 The Belief Change Alchemist » Blog Archive » Addressing a Fear of Criticism Wed, 15 Dec 2010 14:07:07 +0000 https://rodesmith.wordpress.com/2006/07/29/self-differentiation-emotional-health-schnarch-david-passionate-marriage/#comment-839 [...] way to think about fear of criticism is to create a sense of what psychologist David Schnarch calls self-differentiation, which requires building a sense of self that is more immune to others’ criticisms.  This issue [...] [...] way to think about fear of criticism is to create a sense of what psychologist David Schnarch calls self-differentiation, which requires building a sense of self that is more immune to others’ criticisms.  This issue [...]

]]> By: Rod E. Smith, MSMFT http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2006/07/29/differentiation/#comment-838 Rod E. Smith, MSMFT Thu, 25 Jun 2009 11:06:35 +0000 https://rodesmith.wordpress.com/2006/07/29/self-differentiation-emotional-health-schnarch-david-passionate-marriage/#comment-838 Take a look at EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIPS (I forget the name of the author), Bowen Theory by Bowen and Kerr, and GENERATION TO GENERATION by Friedman. Go well. Thanks for writing. Take a look at EXTRAORDINARY RELATIONSHIPS (I forget the name of the author), Bowen Theory by Bowen and Kerr, and GENERATION TO GENERATION by Friedman.

Go well. Thanks for writing.

]]> By: Donna Petterson http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2006/07/29/differentiation/#comment-837 Donna Petterson Thu, 25 Jun 2009 06:23:16 +0000 https://rodesmith.wordpress.com/2006/07/29/self-differentiation-emotional-health-schnarch-david-passionate-marriage/#comment-837 Mr. Smith: Trying to write a paper on differentiation, self-validated intimacy, normal marital sadism, holding onto yourself, and other theories by Schnarch. I really enjoyed your article on differentiation - do you have articles on these other theories of David Schnarch? Thanks for this article....very informative. Mr. Smith:

Trying to write a paper on differentiation, self-validated intimacy, normal marital sadism, holding onto yourself, and other theories by Schnarch. I really enjoyed your article on differentiation – do you have articles on these other theories of David Schnarch? Thanks for this article….very informative.

]]> By: Rod E. Smith, MSMFT http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2006/07/29/differentiation/#comment-836 Rod E. Smith, MSMFT Thu, 18 Jun 2009 01:43:03 +0000 https://rodesmith.wordpress.com/2006/07/29/self-differentiation-emotional-health-schnarch-david-passionate-marriage/#comment-836 They do... but do they swim by choice? They do… but do they swim by choice?

]]> By: Nancy http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2006/07/29/differentiation/#comment-835 Nancy Thu, 18 Jun 2009 01:37:56 +0000 https://rodesmith.wordpress.com/2006/07/29/self-differentiation-emotional-health-schnarch-david-passionate-marriage/#comment-835 Rod -- I'm doing it but it ain't easy. I'd rather ponder other things like "Do fish drink water?" Rod — I’m doing it but it ain’t easy. I’d rather ponder other things like “Do fish drink water?”

]]> By: Debby Pardue http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2006/07/29/differentiation/#comment-834 Debby Pardue Mon, 25 May 2009 17:11:32 +0000 https://rodesmith.wordpress.com/2006/07/29/self-differentiation-emotional-health-schnarch-david-passionate-marriage/#comment-834 You are right on the mark, and very insightful. It takes most of us a lifetime to figure these things out. Some never do. You are right on the mark, and very insightful. It takes most of us a lifetime to figure these things out. Some never do.

]]> By: Just A Little More Bite! » Blog Archive » Less queasy, or am i fooling myself? http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2006/07/29/differentiation/#comment-833 Just A Little More Bite! » Blog Archive » Less queasy, or am i fooling myself? Fri, 11 Aug 2006 08:30:40 +0000 https://rodesmith.wordpress.com/2006/07/29/self-differentiation-emotional-health-schnarch-david-passionate-marriage/#comment-833 [...] I was reading about self differentiation http://rodesmith.wordpress.com/2006/07/29/self-differentiation-emotional-health-schnarch-david-passionate-marriage/ and quickly realized that i have a long way to go. I ordered David Schnarch’s book called “PASSIONATE MARRIAGE”. Let’s see what insights that might give me. [...] [...] I was reading about self differentiation http://rodesmith.wordpress.com/2006/07/29/self-differentiation-emotional-health-schnarch-david-passionate-marriage/ and quickly realized that i have a long way to go. I ordered David Schnarch’s book called “PASSIONATE MARRIAGE”. Let’s see what insights that might give me. [...]

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