http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2006/03/26/disrespect-toxic-relationships/ Difficult Relationships - honest answers to relationship dilemmas Sun, 22 Jan 2012 11:30:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 http://www.difficultrelationships.com/2006/03/26/disrespect-toxic-relationships/#comment-427 Karen Mon, 22 May 2006 05:33:10 +0000 https://rodesmith.wordpress.com/2006/03/26/disrespect-toxic-relationships/#comment-427 I just want to say that I have been with this guy for 9 years and every month for all of that time he has paid 525.00 for child support. We both have good enough jobs to make a pretty darned good life for ourselves but because he has so much going out each month it really does put us in a bind from time to time. I have told him that it would be so much help if he would just find something to make up the money that goes out every month so that we would not have to go through this each and every month. It ends up that I have to pick up all the slack when he is not able to make the rest of the bills that would be his part of them. I am tired of it...any place but here would have to be better at this point. Then he tries to tell me that because where we live it is too expensive...this is not my fault, I want to live in a nice area, he just needs to get the other half of the expenses in the bank so that it takes the load off of me. I have two teens and all he does is preach to me about how they have no respect of responsibility when in fact he shows me zero. I get so sick of listening to him on the soapbox when he is only mirroring himself in my children. I would expext that teens would have some of these features from time to time, but not a grown man. sign me...fed the hell up! I just want to say that I have been with this guy for 9 years and every month for all of that time he has paid 525.00 for child support. We both have good enough jobs to make a pretty darned good life for ourselves but because he has so much going out each month it really does put us in a bind from time to time. I have told him that it would be so much help if he would just find something to make up the money that goes out every month so that we would not have to go through this each and every month. It ends up that I have to pick up all the slack when he is not able to make the rest of the bills that would be his part of them. I am tired of it…any place but here would have to be better at this point. Then he tries to tell me that because where we live it is too expensive…this is not my fault, I want to live in a nice area, he just needs to get the other half of the expenses in the bank so that it takes the load off of me. I have two teens and all he does is preach to me about how they have no respect of responsibility when in fact he shows me zero. I get so sick of listening to him on the soapbox when he is only mirroring himself in my children. I would expext that teens would have some of these features from time to time, but not a grown man. sign me…fed the hell up!

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